Creative Alternatives to the Traditional Rehearsal Dinner
By Meghan Ely, OFD Consulting
There’s a lot to love about a classic wedding rehearsal dinner. A cozy meal surrounded by your favorite people, celebrating the excitement of what’s to come. But for many couples, the idea of this pre-wedding gathering has evolved. Rather than sticking strictly to tradition, more are exploring fresh, creative ways to make the evening their own. If you’re looking to put a personal spin on your celebration, here’s what a handful of industry pros suggest.
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Switch Up Your Location
Who says your rehearsal dinner has to be held in a restaurant or banquet hall? Couples are getting creative with where they celebrate, from cozy backyard gatherings to art galleries, breweries, or even picnic-style setups in the park.
McKenzi Taylor, Owner/Founder of Gather After, suggests, “A still rather tame way to break tradition is to opt for a rehearsal dinner at a brew pub or winery. But why not take it a step further and call in your favorite food truck to a backyard gathering? How about renting out a suite at a ballgame and filling it with your favorite stadium foods and your favorite people? And mobile bars can take the party just about anywhere, and Bluetooth speakers on a picnic table can keep the party going late into the evening.”
Changing up the setting can also make the night more memorable for your guests. A change of scenery invites conversation and creates that “wow” factor without necessarily adding more stress to your planning.
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Focus On Activities
Instead of a traditional sit-down dinner, try planning an experience that brings everyone together. Activities are a great way to break the ice between family and friends who may not know each other yet.
“Activity night: bowling lanes, game night, or karaoke with light bites,” recommends Craig Peterman, Photographer & Videographer at Craig Peterman Photography & Videography. “People mingle faster when they have something to do besides stare at a seating chart.”
You could also organize a wine tasting or plan a cooking class where everyone gets hands-on with dinner prep.
Loni Peterson, Owner of LP Creative Events, agrees, adding, “Some suggestions for something a bit less traditional include, incorporating an activity like the bowling alley or roller skating rink, doing a toasts and talent night where your friends say nice things about your and share their hidden talents, or even hosting a casual come and go event at a home of a friend or family member is a low stakes opportunity for your guests to swing by and say hi before the big day!”
Activities are a fun, low-stakes way to bring your favorite people together. And chances are, they’ll be talking about how much fun they had long after the wedding weekend wraps up!
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Keep the Timing in Mind
While it can be tempting to space things out over a few days, keeping your rehearsal close to the wedding day is often the most considerate choice, especially for guests who have traveled to celebrate. Hosting it the evening before the big day is a great way to keep the energy high.
“No matter what direction you go with your rehearsal dinner, please still be mindful of the timing by keeping it as close to the celebration day as you can,” emphasizes Kevin Dennis, Owner of Fantasy Sound Event Services. “You’ll have a mix of local and out-of-town guests, and both have presumably had to shift their own schedules (happily!) to be there. Hosting the rehearsal just before the wedding itself is a practical choice that, in part, makes it a bit easier on those taking the time to be there.”
Timing also plays into the type of experience you want to create. A morning or midday gathering can feel casual (perfect for garden parties or brunch spreads), while an evening event might lend itself to a candlelit dinner or cocktail-style party. Whatever you choose, think about what fits best with your weekend timeline and your guests’ comfort.
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Remember: It’s Still Important to Rehearse
Though you might be shaking things up with your pre-wedding plans, don’t forget the “rehearsal” part of the rehearsal dinner! It’s still essential to gather your wedding party, family, and officiant for a quick run-through before the fun begins.
Amos Gott, Chief Event Architect at AmosEvents, notes, “Even if the dinner format is unconventional, it is still wise to carve out time for a ceremony walkthrough at some point in the day. This ensures everyone involved feels confident and prepared for the wedding service.”
Think of the rehearsal as setting the stage. It’s the practice that lets you and your loved ones relax and soak in every moment when it’s showtime.
A rehearsal dinner (or whatever form your pre-wedding celebration takes!) is really about connection. No matter what it looks like, the goal is to bring your loved ones together to laugh and share in the excitement of what’s ahead. So don’t be afraid to make it your own. With a little creativity, you can kick off your wedding weekend in a way that feels as meaningful and memorable as the main event itself!
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Meghan Ely is the owner of wedding PR and marketing firm OFD Consulting and the founder of OFD Collective, a membership community for wedding pros looking to elevate their visibility. She’s a sought-after speaker and a self-professed royal wedding enthusiast.